There are some things in life that do not just hurt in the moment, they echo. Long after the screaming stops, after the sirens fade, after the fists unclench, trauma has a way of holding on, and sometimes, no matter how badly you want to move forward, part of you stays stuck That is what post-traumatic stress disorder feels like.
At Psychoaura, we believe mental health is not about labels or diagnoses, it is about people. Real people, with real stories, who deserve more than silence. Post-traumatic stress disorder is one of those conditions that is so often misunderstood. It is not just for soldiers or survivors of horrific events. It can happen to anyone. You do not need to have gone to war.
WHAT IT FEELS LIKE
It feels like being bone-deep tired, but terrified of your own thoughts in the dark. Laughing at a joke while something inside you quietly breaks. Avoiding the street where everything changed. Carrying a storm no one sees. It feels like being angry for no reason, numb when you should feel something, and on edge with a hundred tiny panic alarms going off over things no one else even notices. It feels like you cannot even trust your own brain anymore. Or your heart. Or your gut. And sometimes, it feels like you are losing your mind. But you are not alone.
You are reacting the way a human reacts when they have been through too much. Your brain is trying to protect you. It just does not realize that the danger is gone. You are not faking. You are surviving. Quietly. Desperately and somehow, still showing up. That is what no one understands.
THE INVISIBLE SYMPTOMS THAT MAKE YOU FEEL SO ALONE
A person with post-traumatic stress disorder is scared, tired, and carrying a heavy weight that no one sees. No one notices the panic attacks, or how your eyes keep searching for a way out. The nightmares wake you gasping for air, and safety never really feels close. Sleepless nights blur together with sudden tears and anger that comes without warning. Suddenly, it hits you, and you do not know why.
COPING STRATEGIES FOR POST-TRAUMATIC STRESS DISORDER
GROUNDING TECHNIQUE
It is one of the techniques that helps you come back to the present when your brain launches into panic. You have to do a simple method: 5-4-3-2-1
- Name 5 things you can see.
- 4 things you can touch.
- 3 you can hear.
- 2 you can smell.
- 1 you can taste.
THERAPY
Not just talk therapy. Trauma therapy. Look for someone trained in: Eye Movement desensitization and reprocessing, trauma-focused CBT, somatic therapy, and if you have tried therapy before and it did not help?. That does not mean you cannot heal. It just means you have not found the right therapist yet.
MINDFULNESS
FIND PEOPLE WHO FEEL LIKE SAFETY
Conclusion
Post-traumatic stress disorder does not always look like what people expect. It can look like holding it together at work while falling apart inside, or sound like saying “I am fine” when you are anything but. It is flinching at kindness because your body only knows danger, and feeling exhausted by the triggers, the flashbacks, and the shame. But you are not too much. You are not too broken. You are someone who went through something real and survived. That matters. Your pain is real, even when no one notices the quiet battle you fight inside. Healing is possible, and it is about wiping the hurt or pretending to be okay. It is about dealing with your pain gently, without letting it define who you are or steal your light.




